When it comes to planning a perfect wedding there is a lot of hype about choosing the perfect wedding dress, making the venue decor looking magical, coming up with a perfect menu and picking the bridesmaid dresses. But what about those without whom the wedding wouldn’t happen in the first place – our lovely moms. Brides often (rightfully though) get into “this is my day” mindset, but be sure that your mother is just as excited as you are, often even more. Just imagine seeing your little baby all grown up, walking down the aisle to start a whole new life. Mothers fell excited, emotional, overwhelmed, probably having hard time just keeping it together and not stress you out more than you already are, and they still have to find a perfect dress. And just think about it, like mother, like daughter – all eyes will be on the bride’s mother, trying to guess what the bride will look like in 20-30 years. That is a lot of pressure to look your best.
There is a way to thank your mom and make her look amazing for your wedding. Involve her in the process as much as possible, have fun and enjoy the bonding time. This is a very special time for the both of you.
Help your mom fit in
Find a dress that will complement the wedding gown or the groom’s suit. Mother of the bride would look beautiful in a dress in pastel (which is the classic choice of color for the wedding). Mother of the groom can match the color of her dress with her son’s bow tie, or another detail on his outfit.
Boost her confidence
Women of a certain age often start feeling bad about their bodies, because they don’t look like they used to when they were younger. That leads to choosing the dresses that can cover as much of their body as possible, which are often very old-fashioned, matronly and not flattering at all. They feel like more modern styles are not appropriate for their age. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. What makes a woman radiant is her confidence, and if you want your mom to shine on your wedding day, help her feel good about herself. When your mom is trying on dresses, remember to keep the mood positive and let her be the first to give her opinion.
Help her find a flattering fit
Mothers often panic when faced with having to search for a dress for their child’s wedding. First of all, they don’t shop for formal attire every day. Also, most mothers don’t have the same figure they had when they were younger. Luckily, there is a flattering fit for any body type, both long and short MOB dress styles. Talk to your mother about what you and what she feel would fit her best and look online for some suggestions. Take a look at some of the gorgeous dresses on Madame Bridal. After her dress arrives, make sure you get your mom an appointment with your tailor. The secret to a great style is in the fit.
Make her feel beautiful
As we age, our skin changes and what once worked in your 20’s and 30’s doesn’t always work into your 40’s and beyond. Your mom would really benefit from hiring a makeup professional, who can give her recommendations on proper skin care before the wedding. Also, the wedding day can be just as stressful, as it is for you. Even though all eyes will be on the blushing bride – the mom is the “hostess” of the event. Don’t make her worry about doing her own makeup and hair. Treat her to hair, makeup, or a manicure on the big day. Let your mom know that you want her to look and feel as good as you do on your wedding day, and that will make her shine.
Make memories last
Women tend to spend more on clothes for special occasions, and your mom certainly wants to look her absolute best, but she also wants to shop smart. Of course, the best “investment” is to buy something you will enjoy wearing again. So every time your moms wears the attire, it will bring back memories of one of the best days of your lives.
Your mom has always been one of the most important women in your life. She’s had your back since way before you started planning the wedding, and she’s probably helped to make your big day a reality in more ways than you can count. So after you have helped your mom get ready, give her the biggest hug before all the craziness of the wedding starts, and just enjoy your big day, knowing you have her by your side.
